Are you crazy about her? Do you feel you just can’t live without her even for a single day? Or you just think; ”She is the one for me.”
If any of these ideas are ringing any bells in your head and urging you to go into a committed relationship, you need to slow down right there and then. Just take a deep breath and think for some time, realistically. Are you 100% sure that she is the right one for you?
If you are thinking of replying with something like ”I Just Know”, then you definitely need some more time before you make one of the biggest decisions of your life.
Seeing and dating someone is different and going into a committed relationship with someone is altogether a different phenomenon. Don’t let obsession take over you. You need to think rationally before moving into a committed relationship with some girl.
Here is a list of signs that can give you an idea if the girl in your life is the right one for you. If you can’t find a ‘yes’ to all or any of these signs, then you must pause. But, if luckily you get a ‘Certainly Yes’ to these questions, then I would say, ”What are you waiting for, man?”.
1. Does she make you smile?
Do you smile every time you see her, or think about her or talk to her? If that is the case then it’s a clear sign of true love.
If your partner makes you happy just with her presence, then she is surely the girl you can spend your life with. Just the thought of her gives you a refreshing feeling. One glance at her smiling face takes away all your day-long tiredness. Having her around makes your heart happy and contended. Then she surely is the love of your life, your girl – your soul mate.
2. Is she there for you?
Your real partner will be there for you, no matter what. You need to evaluate this. If your girlfriend is with you whenever it is convenient for her, then she is not the right one.
A girl who wants to be your real partner in life will go out of the way to be there for you every time you need her. Apart from being with you in your happy days, she always sticks to you in your dark times. She supports you, stands by with you, comforts you, consoles you, motivates you; hence she is always there for you.
If your girl really knows her role in your life and she makes every effort to be a part of your life by being there for you, then she is the real one.
3. Has she opened up to you?
I completely understand that you love her. But another crucial side of this is – ‘does she love you?’
A girl opens up her heart and soul to the person she really loves. She ignores all the chances of being vulnerable if she is truly in love with you. She will talk her heart out without any doubts and fears. But if it’s not happening then there may be some doubts in her heart about being your real partner. If your girlfriend is not sure about her love for you then you both should take some time and work on it.
4. Can you both talk to each other for hours and hours?
The significance of physical intimacy and passion cannot be ruled out from any successful relationship. But a true relationship demands much more than being physical. If you and your girl both love talking to each other without getting bored or feeling awkward then she is undoubtedly your soul mate. If you both can get involved in long conversations without feeling the need for anyone else, then you two are made for each other.
5. Has your life drastically improved ever since you met her?
Has your approach towards life become more positive? Do you feel yourself being happier than ever before? Do you have more good days? Are you enjoying every minute of your life? Then she definitely is ”the one”.
If her presence has brought a positive change in your life then she is the right girl for you. She inspires you. Her persona helps you to have a better outlook towards life. Her intelligence and optimistic approach gives you a better understanding of life. If such a girl is in your life, then she surely is the right one for you.
Successful and long-lasting relationships are based on true love. If you can’t find any signs of love in your relationship with her, then there is no point of continuing your relationship with her.
On the contrary if you can say ‘Yes’ to all of these questions, then you surely have found the right girl – the one made for you.